I have not written in a while. I guess, like the rest of the world I am observing, and trying to figure out what is happening, what is being revealed, what is falling away, what is resisting imminent death.
Systems are crumbling, rebellions are rising, and a virus has held us hostage for months now.
While I have a list of topics to write about, political, mundane, and obviously Magickal, this is the one that seems most pressing today.
First let me say, loudly:
BLACK LIVES MATTER
ARREST BREONNA TAYLOR’S MURDERERS
WEAR A MASK
If you have a problem with these messages, unfollow the blog because I have news for you:
WITCRAFT IS POLITICAL
Now, carrying on…
I really tried to stay out of this TikTok/Witchtok bullshit, but it’s literally everywhere, and people are asking my opinion; instead of replying to 50 messages, and risk getting myself wrapped up in a conversation *nervous introvert laugh*—I decided writing a blog was the best way to address my opinion, and hit on some points I don’t think folks are understanding or willing to see.
I have watched many videos, read article after article, consulted with folks on all sides and here are the facts as we know them.
A few days ago, a group of “baby Witches” on TikTok decided that they were going to “hex the Fae”.
Yes, you read that correctly.
Okay, sidebar before we get into the juicy parts of this I gotta say:
Can we stop using the term Baby Witch? I know that it seems innocent enough, but not only is it patronizing as fuck, it’s being used as an insult and a way to further close off our community to new blood.
Why do new Witches bother established, practicing Witches so much?
You were not new before?
How about you just stay in your lane, and let the new Witches create theirs.
What is the issue?
Personally? I like waves being created, I mean, HELLO, have you read my work?
Also, we are not giving these young Adults and Adults enough credit.
These are not children we are speaking of, and in the case of children and Witchcraft, that is an entirely different topic.
“Baby Witches” are often given a free pass, and nah.
Discernment is key when dealing with all Magickal and Occult Traditions.
Whether you are 18, or 42, in most cases you are of sound mind and able to make educated decisions for yourself.
If you, as an adult, choose to make a poor decision, that is on you.
Those consequences are yours, and nobody else’s.
Is it someone’s job to step in and say, “you might not want to do that?”
- That’s gatekeeping.
- My number one rule in life: you can’t tell people about themselves.
- These are Adults.
Back to my point:
Obviously, hexing the Fae is ridiculous to even think about.
Why would you attack a group of Spirits for no reason? It doesn’t affect me, and so I am able to shrug it off, roll my eyes, and keep it moving.
But, seriously, do you not know who the Fae are and what they are capable of? Seelie, Unseelie or otherwise? Like….why?
We, as experienced Witches, must allow the new ones to fuck up and make mistakes.
We all have made mistakes, we still (hopefully) make mistakes because that is how we LEARN; that is how we continue to evolve on our path and as people.
Getting mad and making fun of these “TikTok Witches” is yet another form of gatekeeping.
I want to give Jason Miller a shoutout for his initial post that inspired me and gave me the courage to write this. His post stated:
“Dear TikTok Witches: Hex, the moon, the fae, or whatever the hell you want. Don’t let anyone police your practice. However it shakes out, and make no mistake some of it will end badly: learn from it.
I have no idea what you are doing or even trying to do, but am excited that young people are doing stuff that makes us roll our eyes. I think its dumb as heck, but that’s half that fun.”
There were rumors that these same Witches were going to hex the Moon and Sun as well.
I have since learned that it was initially started by a TikTok troll, see video below:
You hexed the Fae, the Moon, the Sun and angered Ancient Ones?
Weird flex, but okay.
I am not here to tell anyone how to practice, unless they are coming to me directly for advice and even then, there are so many variables that determine the kind of help they receive.
Here are two key points in all of my rambling that I really want to get out into the world:
Everyone and anyone CAN practice Magick, but often SHOULD is overlooked.
There is no wrong way to do a hex, but there is a right way.
Allow me to elaborate, as I can hear the collective gasp even before this is published.
I don’t care what kind of Witch you are, your initiations or titles (though I will always congratulate and applaud)—the fact remains, everyone and anyone CAN practice Magick.
I said what I said.
There are a lot of Witches who do not agree with this statement, “Well I am a third generation Witch, High Priestess, Initiate and I am telling you that real Witches….”
Everyone gets tuned out as soon as they say, “real Witch”.
Nobody speaks for all Witches because WITCHES ARE SOVEREIGN BEINGS.
And all Witches are real Witches.
So, miss me with that bullshit.
What is this should I refer to, you ask?
Well folks, should is discernment.
Just because you can do something does not mean you should, or even have to.
There is no manual or advice that can truly be given regarding “should they practice” because that is a decision only the Practitioner can make, and if they hurt themselves then that is on them.
We cannot be both savior and gatekeeper.
Read it again, put it on a t-shirt, write it on your mirror.
We can’t be both.
My second point, you are probably thinking I am off my rocker, but I assure I am not.
There is no wrong way to hex.
I have seen some of the most non-Magickal folks EVERRR throw the nastiest Evil Eye.
I have seen non-Magick folk channel their emotion with enough power and intent that they threw Malefica towards another.
Hexes do not all look like ceremonial glitz, candle Magick, or blood and bone in the woods.
Hexes can be as simple as a look, a whisper in the wind, or a thought.
In fact, that’s often-what hexes were throughout history.
But you are not ready for that conversation.
Now, there is a right way to do a hex, and what I mean by this is: there is a formula for all Magickal workings to allow their outcomes to serve us best.
It is for this reason that many of us pay attention to not only the Moon but Astrological forecasts, days of the week and correspondences and the potential kick back of the Magick we are about to throw; a well thought out hex can produce little kick back if done properly. I am being vague on purpose as I believe Malefica to be a topic that deserves respect and can’t be summarized in a paragraph, or two.
Allow new Witches to make mistakes, allow them to make us uncomfortable.
Roll your eyes and laugh it off!
We were young and dumb once too, and I know this may hit some of you hard but, we might be able to learn a thing or two from fresh eyes.
Witchcraft is a tradition, a path that has been walked by the marginalized, the downtrodden, the misfits, the outcasts since the beginning of time and we have the audacity to continue gatekeeping?
Witchcraft is also a tradition, a path of powerful individuals who are living and seeking their truth in a world who tells them not to and we have the audacity to box them in and kill their fire?
We are healers. We are teachers. We are students. We are Keepers of the Old Ways.
It is okay to spice Sacred up with a little modern fun, I promise.
Witchcraft can evolve, and should, as all things from nature must grow.
Blessed Are The Witches.
In Truth, I Hear You.